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Moises Pichardo's avatar

"A handmade mirror is like an accomplice to my thoughts and a spy of those who know me best... it always screams at me, silently saying, you're not good enough, you don't deserve, you don't know, you can't, etc."

Jon, it's an honor to read your message this morning! God has used you to silence that mirror and put a plug in its mouth!

Amen! God still has much to do with me and through me!

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Art DeBruyn's avatar

Truth. Seen it. Lived it. Here's my spin on it.

From my experience, most leaders become one by choice. We are attracted to the idea, at least initially, so we pursue it. We take on the burdens of responsibility. But in the back of our mind, we also think that there will be a quid-pro-quo (literally "this for that") for our sacrifice. That our desire for leadership will somehow deliver a sense of fulfillment or satisfaction. And sometimes it does, but more often, it does not. And then we start to think and wonder: "I thought this would be more fun." Wrestling with that realization really helps to dig into our underlying motivations. When leadership isn't satisfying/fulfilling, our internal critic tells us: "Of course it's not fun, because you are not worthy."

Imposter Syndrome arises when we misplace our expectations of leadership. If we assume our leadership will serve and fulfill our need for validation, then we've missed the mark. I have to constantly remind myself that God invites me into leadership because he has given me the gifts to do it. But I do it for his glory, not my own. Or as C.J. Johnson recently said, lordship has to come before leadership.

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