When the Leader Needs ReLeading
Even the Greatest of Leaders Need a Redo
“What are you doing here, Elijah?”
These are the words the Lord whispered to Elijah, a prophet whose spiritual resumé was filled with miracles and confrontations with evil. But even Elijah had his cave moments—literally. There he was, crouched in a cave, broken, and questioning his purpose after requesting God to end his life under a broom tree just weeks before. He had experienced the pinnacle of triumphs, but also the depths of emotional and spiritual breakdowns.
Being at the helm of an organization or a department, especially when you’re fixing what you didn’t break, can feel like you're walking a tightrope between being a hero and a zero. We ReLeaders are usually so laser-focused on restoring and rebuilding that we forget we're also human. So, if you're feeling scattered even though everyone else thinks you've got it all together, you're not alone. Even Elijah needed some ReLeading from the ultimate Leader.
Breaking the Stigma: Soul Care is Essential
In many leadership circles, admitting you need help can seem like a sign of weakness. But let’s get one thing straight: It’s not. When you’re giving it your all to mend the broken pieces of an organization or a project, it’s inevitable that you’ll need some mending too. Even Elijah, a prophet who had a direct line to Heaven, needed spiritual and emotional tune-ups from God Himself. If he could accept divine counseling in his lowest moments, what's stopping us from seeking professional counseling or other forms of assistance?
Time to Look Inward: The Mirror of Self-Reflection
Part of the reason Elijah ended up in that cave was his failure to conduct routine soul maintenance. The unexamined life may lead to burnout, anxiety, and a host of other problems that can derail your effectiveness as a leader. Take some time to pause and engage in self-reflection. Get real with yourself and with God. What are your strengths, but more importantly, what are your weaknesses and vulnerabilities? If you don't take the time to look in the mirror, you may miss the cracks forming in your foundation.
Resource Up: It’s Not a One-Man Show
The ReLeading process often demands a toolbox of resources. While your spiritual and emotional stamina is essential, don't forget about the power of external resources. There are tons of tools available—from therapy and counseling to leadership coaching and mentorship programs. You may even benefit from peer groups of fellow ReLeaders who understand the specific challenges you face. (shameless plug for joining our paid subscription ReLeader community and subscribing to our podcasts)
The Pitfall of Pride: Being Vulnerable is Courageous
Here’s the kicker: pride is often the stumbling block that prevents us from seeking help. It's easy to fall into the trap of believing that as a ReLeader, you should have all the answers. But the truth is, leaning into vulnerability isn't a mark against your leadership; it actually enhances it. Admitting you need help gives those who follow you permission to do the same, fostering a culture of holistic well-being.
A Support Network: You’re Only as Strong as Your Team
Even when God was ReLeading Elijah, He didn't do it solo. He had ravens deliver food to Elijah and later connected him with Elisha, his successor and protégé. In your ReLeading journey, you don't have to go it alone. Create a strong support network, consisting of family, friends, and professionals, who can be your 'Elishas' and 'ravens,' providing you with emotional and practical support.
Final Thoughts: You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup
We’re often told that leadership is about serving others, but remember, you can't pour from an empty cup. In the process of ReLeading, don't forget that you, too, may need some divine or earthly intervention. The good news is, if you're wrestling with this, you're in stellar company—both biblical and modern. So, give yourself permission to seek the ReLeading you need. After all, an organization is only as strong as its leader, and a well-cared-for leader is a force to be reckoned with.
Remember, you're not failing by seeking help; you're preparing for your next win. And sometimes, your next 'Mount Carmel' is just one therapy session, mentorship meeting, or heart-to-heart away.