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David Boyce's avatar

You’re right, our orphan is ever seeking recognition and affirmation. That’s one of the primary identifiers of a victims heart. It afflicted me for years. The Heavenly Father had to hold me in obscurity for extended seasons to save and heal me from it. There’s nothing more freeing when you finally break free and begin to build and find your identity in Jesus. Those of us us who are plagued in varying degrees by an orphan heart our Father has had to place us in situations where we must faithfully work in the dark to purify our motives and take us through the healing process so that all we are motivated to do is to bring glory to God through Jesus. We no longer see ourselves doing anything, but only Christ through us. We’re just the conduit- the vessel.

“Whatever you do [no matter what it is] in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus [and in dependence on Him], giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”

‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭17‬ ‭AMP‬‬

We grow into such love for Jesus our primary motivation is no longer our recognition, but to bring glory and honor to God, our Father, through Jesus. Our Orphan heart is healed by being made complete in Jesus- we no longer live, but Christ in and through us.

We have to be careful seeing ourselves as that draft horse so as not to transition from an orphan to a martyr heart. We should be practicing yoking ourselves with Jesus- because his yoke is easy when we’re drafting heavy loads with him. Then, all that matters is that Jesus receives the recognition.

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Amy Elaine Martinez's avatar

Recommitting to writing for the audience of One this year—whether or not my words see the light of day through publishing. 2025: Back to the basics, trusting the goodness of God. Thanks for this encouragement. What a powerful picture to help you (and now us) keep the focus where it needs to be.

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